We got to see the Mayan ruins at Dzibilchaltún, white sandy beaches at Cozumel, watched an early morning sunrise from the deck of the ship, danced The Macarena on the catamaran back from the beach, watched the Seahawks beat New Orleans amidst a whole ship full of New Orleans Saints fans (that was exciting!), walked through the City Park in New Orleans, and ate way too much food!
We had a wonderful time and without being at home, where I have too many tasks and projects to work on, it gave me time to think.
I’ve always been a little reflective around my birthday. Rather than making New Year’s resolutions, I start thinking of what I’ve done in the past year that I like, and what do I want to do differently, so I can grow as a person. That doesn’t sound much different than most people’s motivation for making New Year’s resolutions, but for me it’s the birthday and not the time of year. I’ll never truly know, since I can’t change my birthday!
- Work on becoming more mindful
- Take better care of my health
- Take more family time
- Take one weekend a month for “me” time!
That means sewing on personal projects as well as knitting and spinning.
This goes without saying, but all the stuff I’ve accumulated needs to be evaluated for its value in adding, or taking away, from the joy it brings to my life. Too much stuff clutters up my brain!
Now that I’m back home, and back to reality, I need to deal with my computer crash, my messy sewing room, desk and dining room table. It’s also a time to spend with friends and be mindful of how I spend my time.
It’s going to be a great year!
What are you doing this New Year’s Day? Me, I’m spending it with a group of fiber people!
You know, I never gave that description any thought when I started hanging out with spinners and knitters because of the company I was in when I said it, but outside of that community I’ve had lots of funny looks from people and then I realized they thought I meant “fiber” as in dietary fiber!
Today I’m taking not only my spinning wheel and new jumbo flyer so I can finish up the roving I’ve been working on, but I also made the bodies of 3 hats on my Singer HK-100 bulky knitting machine yesterday so now they just need to be sewn up to finish them. That’s the part I dislike the most, but I’ll be able to finish them up in no time because I’m going to concentrate on them today, and someone there might even have an easier way to sew them up than I’ve been able to figure out so far, too.
I’m also going to take those over sized Fuzzy Feet slippers I made with me so I can finish the toes and then get them into the wash to felt them. I have to say, I’m quite pleased with how they’ve turned out and I’ll be taking a toe-up sock pattern with me today so I can start learning how to do those, too.
I’m also taking a Coca Cola Chocolate Cake. I’ve never tried it, or made it, before but I’ve never made socks before, either.
So, today it sounds like a lot of “finishing” going on! That sounds fabulous to me, because they say that whatever you do on New Years Day is what you’ll do the rest of the year. And by “they” I mean the gals I’m getting together with, and who knows who they got it from! 🙂
I’ve really been looking forward to our get together, I seem to come back calm and centered after spending a day with them. There’s food, laughter, conversation and lots of creativity and support..
Next weekend, I’ll quilt.
Happy New Year!
A friend asked me recently to describe what a “perfect day” would look like so I could recognize one when it came along. Here’s what I came up with:
- Spend time with my husband
- Start the day off with coffee over email and Facebook.
Note to self: that doesn’t mean spend the entire day on the computer!
- Walk the dogs – this isn’t really exercise because they are Shih Tzu and have very short legs and can only walk about a mile!
- Exercise for me
- Work on a personal sewing, knitting, or spinning project
- Spend time talking to a friend
It’s interesting that as I started making the list more and more items came to mind and any combination of these things could make a perfect day. It’s very empowering to recognize and acknowledge that I have so many blessings and opportunities. Truly, our mindset makes a difference whether we see our blessings or only our troubles.
However, I didn’t add more to my list above only because lately I’ve been over-crowding my days and over-committing my time and I’m tired and stressed. It’s my own fault, of course. I’ve been challenged with this balancing act ever since I was a teenager, but it’s also up to me to change this if I want a different quality of life. I’m taking steps, tiny as they may be, towards this goal.